I saw this article online at http://www.simplemost.com/things-people-depression-understand and I found it kind of interesting and relatable. In the article, the author listed 15 things that only people with depression understand. I wanted to share that with you. My comments are in parenthesis.
- “Being sad” isn’t the same thing as “being depressed” (For me, I agree!)
- You don’t have a reason to be depressed (True, but I shouldn’t feel depressed and when the depression is hereditary then there is my reason right there)
- Depression doesn’t go away just because you were happy for a few hours (So true! For me, if I have a good day that doesn’t mean that my depression is gone)
- Our other emotions are still valid even though we are depressed
- Hanging out with friends can seem like a charade (I agree that being around people can be more of a task than an adventure!)
- You can’t just “get it over it” (Oh yes, is this true!)
- Self-harm doesn’t seem so crazy when you’re depressed (People will do just about anything to relieve their depression such as drugs or alcohol or self harm)
- We often don’t think that depression affects others (I can be inconsiderate sometimes)
- We forget that others do care for us (ME!)
- We tend to forget about our physical health (Oh Yeah!)
- Some days feel like weeks (Yes, again especially during rough times!)
- Happiness isn’t always our goal
- Sometimes we just don’t want to talk about it
- Leaving the house can feel like running a marathon (ME! Zero motivation or energy!)
- It doesn’t last forever (For me, it probably will last forever, but look on the bright side! Be positive!)